Can a 20 year old girl date a 30 year old man?
28 Oct I was having breakfast the other day with a friend who was giving dating advice to his son. Based upon this rule, the only time that a man can date a woman his own age is when he's 14 years old (because half of 14 is seven, and seven plus seven When you're 25, you can date a and-a-half-year-old. 26 Apr I dated a 34 year old when I was At the time, I didn't see anything wrong with it . But now I am 29 and see it totally different. At my age then, although I was mature for my age, I hadn't experienced enough, lived enough, gone through enough, to be on an adults level. And personally, more than likely. Bad news for you: 30 year old women who date 19 year olds want the same thing young girls want: to party and to drink. Thats why they .. As a 30 yr old woman dating a 24 year old man, I can honestly say that I'm not a heavy drinker, I don't like to party all the time, and I'm not effed in the head. I can also.
How would you in general feel about this? This is a completely hypothetical question and is not related in any way to my personal life but it is just something I've been thinking about wildly of how society would see this situation.
My parents were 30 and 20 when they got married. If they're both mature adults, I don't think anything of it. He's 30, she's 19, everybody's legal so it's all good. Im 41 my gf is We met 9 years ago.
Her Boyfriend is 40 Years Older?!
Shes a stunner Im just lucky. I'd personally be against it, but that's just me. The age gap is pretty big, a 30 year old dating a teenager does not compute in my brain. Permanently banned by power tripping mods lol this forum is trash. I don't have an issue with it, I could understand the concern a father might have in that scenario thinking the older man might be taking advantage of someone young and naive but you can't control your kids life when they're an adult.
If it's consensual I think it's totally ok.
Is an 18, almost 19 year old girl dating a 32 year old man that bad?
Strangers wouldn't even know from looks As with any situation where the potential for manipulation or coercion exist though, I'd say it has to be decided on a couple-by-couple basis. Most large age gap couples I know are no more prone to such power issues than anyone else - it 19 Year Old Hookup 30 Year Old Man everyone only thinks of the "innocent 18 year old girl and the drug-using 30 year old man who served time for rape".
Oh, and those belonging to some conservative religions as that power play can be part and parcel of the belief system. And from those, people seem to enjoy projecting it onto every large-age-difference couple.
I'd never go for someone that young, but I guess whatever floats their boat, they're both legal and it's not like she's being forced into it. Why do you think it's weird? Something about the gap just doesn't compute in my brain, something is just "off" about it.
I think it'd bother me less if it was say a 22 year old more info a 32 year old. I guess that's just cultural conditioning on my part though.
Want to add to the discussion? Youth and physical beauty are a joy. As with any situation where the potential for manipulation or coercion exist though, I'd say it has to be decided on a couple-by-couple basis. At 60 you can date a woman who is
I think it would say a lot of not so great things about the male in question. A 30 year old and 19 year old are in two completely different places in their lives.
For several weeks, nothing worked. Usually there is a huge power differential which is not healthy, among other problems. Things get better for men as they get older. He;s actually pretty tame for a French politician. Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters.
I don't care how mature the younger one is. I'd just think it was questionable. Doesn't bother me at all. I feel like I couldn't date someone 10 years younger than me.
I'd feel a bit awkward like I wasn't meant to be doing it, although I would date someone 10 years older than me, but then that would make them 43, so that's not really the same as an adult dating a teenager. But if they really have a good connection and they're both happy I really don't see why it's a problem. Given that the man is identified as 'aspie' it's quite possible that he might be the less 'mature' and experienced partner.
I don't care at all what other people do, but it's very much worth keeping in mind most 30 year olds know what they want from life, know how to get it, or already have it, or the resources to get it. They're just entering adult life and exploring how to be an adult in the most basic of ways.
But if it works for some people, more power to them, and I hope they're happy.
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