Can I Get Back With My Ex If They Are Sleeping With Someone Else?
7 Ground rules for rebound sex after a serious relationship
27 Apr There's no denying a breakup is definitely one of the hardest things to go through in life. The truth of the matter Skip The Rebound Sex: Why Screwing Someone Else Only Screws You Over. By Dontaira But contrary to popular belief, it's OK to be by yourself – especially after a breakup. It gives you time. It doesn't lessen the value of the initial 3-year relationship, but it does lessen or eliminate the value of the proposed 2nd run in my opinion. I'm inclined to think that someone who hops between partners so quickly between breakups lacks confidence in her ability to be alone for awhile and know what she really wants out of a. 31 Jan Or, you can follow the old adage: the best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else. Rebound sex, which is loosely considered casual sex that helps you get through the pain of a breakup, is the more illicit post-relationship coping mechanism. If you choose hookups over hot fudge sundaes.
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All The Joy of The Original. Search titles only Posted by Member: Separate names with a comma. Search this thread only Search this forum only Display results as threads. How long after a long term relationship break up is it okay to hook up with someone else? Sep 20, 1. Sep 20, 2. Sep 20, 3. Ksquall1Sep 20, Sep 20, 4. Isn't there like a rule source this?
I think it's like six weeks or something. ILikeBlackMageSep 20, Sep 20, 5. You're broken up, aren't you? I don't see the issue. Sep 20, 6.
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Sep 20, 7. As soon as you are comfortable going balls deep. Sep 20, 8. PinkTaco24Sep 20, Sep 20, 9. I do a month for every year you dated.
VyseTheFearlessSep 20, Sep 20, Up to you don't live on trying to satisfy some rules.
If you can handle another relationship or if you are ready to go party around go do it. Approximately 5 seconds after. One week per year dating. ShibitySep 20, It's when you feel ready. Most women wait until they have a new guy before breaking up and are undeserving of respect. BluerajahSep 20, There are no set rules. ESep more info, Whenever you want, stupid.
MugetsuSep 20, For a relationship wait a few months but mostly to make sure you're not getting into a relationship for the wrong reasons, not really a respect thing. ThereIsNoSporkSep 20, JBTrio and ForgottenDusk like this. You have no class doe, so what's the point? JizzKhalifaSep 20, If the other cares what you do after that then they are petty and a bitch.
It really doesn't matter. Didn't even know there was a "rule".
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How will they find out? And why would you care? If you guys broke up, your life is no longer the business of your ex. Logic-Sep 20, No point at all in waiting IMO. KohedronSep 20, Basically anytime that you feel comfortable.
Like, if I met an awesome girl the next day I wouldn't let some arbitrary time limit get in the way. It would probably be a little while before I actively link looking for someone else, but I don't think there is a set time.
TurnipTraderSep 20, Half your age times the amount of times you had sex.
How long after a long term relationship break up is it okay to hook up with someone else?
XSmoothSep 20, So wait you're single? CoituseksSep 20, YourLocalRabbiSep 20, Obviously depends on the person and circumstances. I agree with the one month per year you dated. So I'm almost there but, I certainly don't totally feel ready. I have gone on a couple of outings with boys just, never really hooked up at all. I guess everyone is different. If you're my ex Let's be honest it depends on the person.
You shouldn't have to wait on something you want based on an unwritten rule. I don't know, 2 hours? NiKvaSep 20, Whenever the fuck you want. I don't see why people get hung up over shit like this. You're broken up he's not longer a significant part of your life do whatever the fuck you want to do.
IndalecioSep 20, At the end of my last long-term relationship it was -8 days. Then -6 days Then -2 days. Then it was 4 days after. I would wait like a month if that was me but I wouldn't be too strict about it. JBTrioSep 20, But I'm a terrible person.
Sep 20, 9. BluerajahSep 20, You are once again alone missing your ex and might make that one mistake that many of us do — hooking up right after breakup. Understandably, you might think it has to do with him not being particularly invested in click relationship with you. Is rebound sex an emotional crutch, the relationship equivalent to junk food that tastes delicious but leaves you sluggish and sick?
RazSep 20, I don't think you should get involved with someone else so soon. But if you want athen I say at least 2 months. CokeMachineGlowSep 20, Last edited by CokeMachineGlowSep 20, You must log in or sign up to reply here.