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My brother and my best friend are dating. They dated earlier this year, I told them it made me super uncomfortable, and they ended up breaking up.
But then they went behind my back and started dating again, and I found out. I was sooooooo mad, but instead of being mean, I just told them again that it made me uncomfortable. I feel so awkward around both of them, so I have stopped hanging out with my best friend as much because she always invites my brother.
When she comes to my house, she insists on hanging out with him too, and I always have to give them alone time to make out. Should I stay friends with her? Should I say something?
How To Deal When Your Brother and Best Friend Are Dating And You Feel Awkward
I can definitely understand where your anger is coming from. This is a sensitive situation all around, and it seems like no one really knows how to handle it at the moment.
The first thing you really need to do is sit down and have a conversation with your best friend, and a separate conversation with your brother. Tell your BFF you need to talk to her alone about something serious.
And now, here he is, a thirteen-year-old kid too young to die in the middle of the woods because a hungry badger found him meandering on his lonesome through the trees, wondering when on earth he even got separated from the others. Sounds like you have a real cool sis. Scott has yet to outgrow him, which is incredibly frustrating. Scott nods and gives him a push in the direction of the back door. Scott stops hopping immediately and Stiles nearly topples over himself.
Tell your brother the same things, separately. If they seem open to it, try setting some guidelines.
My best friend's just started dating my brother. A recipe for disaster, no?
And then figure out what would make everyone more comfortable. Instead of saying all of this stuff in a really angry, controversial tone, say it in a way that conveys how much you miss her as your best friend.
If she sees you slipping away, it might show her that she needs to change. But if they do agree to work on keeping you separate from their relationship, then you also need to work on becoming more comfortable with them being together. If they agree to work on things, you need to start adjusting to them being together.
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