5 things you should know BEFORE dating someone in the Military
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This is probably the scariest part of being with someone in the military. You have no clue what will happen to your guy. You have no clue if he will make it home or not. You don't know what he is truly dealing with while overseas. There is no telling when he will be home because his job might make him stay longer than he . 2 Aug “I will never date a soldier” is the phrase I used to tell myself religiously. Growing up with my dad in the Army, I have always felt that I got enough of the military lifestyle – and then I ended up dating someone in the military anyway. Although there are many benefits to being in the military, it comes with many. 16 Jun Military men seem pretty great at getting the ladies, and not just during Fleet Week in NYC, where hundreds of hot young Navy guys are greeted on the shores of But they know what's going on in the world, because it's their job to know, and for many, it's the reason they joined the military in the first place.
There are certain things that strong military relationships have. Perhaps you are already dating someone in the military but want to know more before making a serious commitment. If you are considering seriously dating a man or woman in the military, there are a few things to consider. Need more on military life? Check out the Ultimate Handbook for modern military spouses and significant others. I just found your blog and I love it! This article in particular is especially helpful.
I love your post as well. I just started dating someone in the military and your post has given me some insight. Glad I stumbled upon your sit.
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This helps me so much i printed it out. Okay me and alex we meet online. We started to date on that day and well. He wants me to do that but i want to go to college and become a nurse.
I, however, am not asking for anything extravagant or un-give-able. Just relax, have fun, and enjoy the gathering with friends. You to trust me with your life I understand there are things that you would rather experience click and keep to yourself. If you have sky high expectations of Valentines Day, you are going to be let down. Being with someone with goals and ambitions The fact, is you are with someone who wants to get better and has set goals.
What should i do? Should i wait for college untill next Fall?? I just found this and I wanted to thank you so much for everything that you do and write.
So thank you for all the time and effort you take to write these, they help keep me going and help me find things to say to him when he needs it most. I really love your blog as well. Have you come across any support groups for military girlfriends? Would love to join one.
As great as dating a military man may be, there are some things that you may need to know beforehand. And love my live in nanny. Also for the record, I was going nuts as a stay at home mom, and love my career.
I love your site. These are all really good points. They are hard, there is not a lot of money, and you have to be really strong.
So I think the more people know, the smoother they can transition! I hope military spouse bloggers can help make life a little easier for the next generation of military spouses.
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These are all so true! It is a challenging life, with a lot of time apart and not a lot of money. I wish I could help make it easier for all mil spouses!
4. Not knowing what his job will make him do
So to start helping others, I created my military blog, http: I really admire your blog and book, JD, and I hope to have a similar impact on our military community! I need some advice!
I was kinda dating this guy in the military. We met right before he had to go link another continent for 6 months.
He was supposed to come back next month. We were talking almost everyday since he left, we were also skyping and all those things. We were both really excited to finally be together. I tried to reach out to him without any luck. Now he even deactivated his Facebook account. JD Collins December 8, at 8: JD Collins January 11, at 2: Tyscole April 24, at JD Collins June 1, at 3: Kassandra April 25, at 5: Emilia April 30, at 9: JD Collins August 3, at 1: Sarah June 16, at 3: Lizann June 26, at 9: Lizann June 26, at Kim June 30, at 5: Grace July 17, at 2: